Unitarian  Universalists of the Cumberland Valley

 

Online Newsletter for September 2006

 

October Newsletter Deadline is Monday, September 18.  Submit items to kivana“at”comcast.net

 

Sunday Service Topics 1

What’s This? 2

From the DRE 3

Adult Religious Education 4

Auction 2006 Kick-Off Set for September 10th 4

A Word from Your New Board President 5

September Happenings 6

Caregivers Gather 7

Social Actions 7

All in the UCV Family 8

The Wider UU World 8

UUCV Contacts and Resources 9

 

Sunday Service Topics

 

September 3 “Work and Spirit”

The Rev. Duane Fickeisen and Bev Motich, Worship Associate.

Work can be soul-deadening drudgery or it can be a sustaining source of fulfillment. Part of the difference lies with the approach and attitude we bring to it. On this Labor Day weekend, we'll look for ways to make work work better. Perhaps you can change your job for the better without changing jobs.

 

September 10 “There’s a River Flowing…” 

Revs. Judy Welles and Duane Fickeisen.

We celebrate the return to community with our annual Water Ceremony, gathering water from places that were important to you this past summer.  Today marks the first of seven intergenerational services throughout the year, one to introduce each of the seven principles our children will be learning about.  This service will describe our respect for the inherent worth and dignity of every person.  Children will remain with their parents throughout the service; nursery child care will be provided as usual.


September 17 “Global Climate Change: What Can We Do and Why Should We?”

The Rev. Duane Fickeisen and Ellen Buller, Worship Associate.

More than two decades ago I told my colleagues at one of the Department of Energy's National Laboratories that I thought we should consider how climate change would require us to change behavior and how it might impact communities and lifestyles. We had gathered to consider what research might be needed. A senior manager nearly ejected me from the meeting for 'fuzzy-headed thinking.' I'm still raising the questions.


September 24 “The True New Year.”

Kim van Alkemade and Dot Everhart, Worship Associates.

As summer turns to fall this year, we think not of a season coming to a close but of a new year beginning.  From back to school to Rosh Hashanah, from Ramadan to the Autumnal Equinox, as the air cools in September it is the time to start anew.  Join us as we share stories of new beginnings from various religious perspectives.

 

What’s This?

Our monthly minister’s column, this month from Rev. Duane Fickeisen

 

Grace, who will start grade school this month, came into the kitchen in her pajamas rubbing the sleep from her eyes one morning in July while we were visiting her grandparents, Judy’s brother and his wife. She looked at me from across the room—we had not seen each other for a full year—and she asked, “Can you still read?”

 

“Let me see,” I said, as I looked down at the newspaper. “Why, yes, I can!”

 

“Then will you read me a story?” She fetched a book and asked me to look at the back of the jacket and the inside flap to see if it had won any awards. It had. We read the story together. Her younger sister joined us as we read another and one more before her father was able to drag them away to have breakfast and get ready for day camp.

 

Her parents are educators and have taught in international schools for several years—first in Beirut, then San Salvador, and starting this fall in Budapest. They spend their summers in Concord, and it has become an annual occasion to visit them at the start of our vacation. We have but a few precious hours together each year, so we are very much aware of changes in the girls’ lives.

 

In this family, it’s the men who arise early, and there have been several gatherings of Grandpa, Dad/Son-in-Law, Uncle/Brother-in-Law, and kids in the kitchen of the house that Ralph Waldo Emerson’s Unitarian minister built. Since those kids were infants in arms, we have been gathering around strong black coffee with the girls at center stage.

 

And thus it has become tradition with its own rituals and fond memories. We mark late July and the spiral of time—returning each year to something familiar and yet always different.

 

And so it is with our congregation. Time spirals forward as we return to familiar traditions, made fresh and new each time we experience them. A new program year begins. We mark the startup by mingling the waters of the world on the Sunday after Labor Day. The water communion tradition is the beginning of our uniquely UU liturgical year.

 

It is a fresh beginning and we are deeply rooted in traditions that go back at least 2000 years. Our story has a strong and fascinating past marked by heresy, justice-making, and dynamic transformation. But it is not yet finished—revelation is not sealed. The story is still unfolding on the blank pages of the future.

 

We begin a new chapter, drawing on all that has gone before. No one knows where the plot will take us in the coming months, how the characters will develop, or who will enter the story with a fresh voice and view.

 

We have some ideas, to be sure, and a vision to transform lives and care for our world, and a plan—but we know from experience that plots take unexpected twists and turns. One distinctive quality of UUCV has been the ability to take advantage of unexpected opportunities. Sometimes they have required us to make a leap of faith, stretching resources and trusting that wit, skill, and good fortune would carry us through, which they have. Part of what has helped us is a vision of what might be and flexibility to adapt opportunities to help us move toward the vision.

 

One of my mentors, the Rev. Annie Foerster, writes “every beginning is an opportunity to create a better ending.” As we begin again, I urge you to imagine the future, the opportunities that lie ahead for UUCV, and the way you’d like the next chapter to unfold. Everyone who is a part of the congregation is a co-author of the current chapter—what role do you imagine yourself to have in giving shape to what lies ahead? How will you engage, what gifts will you bring, what legacy do you hope to create? What role will UUCV have in your own life story?

 

See you on Sunday!  Duane

From the DRE

UUCV’s Director of Religious Education, Kevin Snow

I told you it would happen!  The summer has whizzed right on past us and now the fall is knocking gently at our doors with cooler evenings and duller colors on the trees.  This only means one thing . . . a new season of religious education is about to begin.  I hope you and your children are prepared to join us for another educational and exciting year of UU principles.  We need all hands on deck to keep our program running smoothly, whether you are a parent or non-parent, older or younger, single or married . . . you catch my drift, we need you to say YES to RE and join us in raising the next generation of UUs.

Please plan on attending the RE Parents'/Teachers'/Helpers' Meeting directly following the Water Service on Sept. 10th.  All the materials you need for your RE experience to begin will be available that day. Registrations, letters from the DRE and a new brochure will be available as will childcare.  Please join your RE Committee in the Dining Hall and please, please bring your calendars along and be thinking about how you would like to join us.  We need teachers who are willing to commit to more than one Sunday and helpers who love jumping in on the fun.  The RE Committee and DRE can not run the program without your volunteer assistance, so please search your heart for how you can fit into our system.

For all you parents of Coming of Age kids, which would be grades of 6, 7 and 8 we will be holding a meeting very soon to discuss all things COA too.  As I write this column the final date has not been set, but we are looking at an evening meeting, perhaps Sept. 13 or 14.  I will contact all of you ASAP about the date.  Your kids will be expected to do more this year and we want the opportunity to explain it all to you in person before you commit to joining us.  As part of the COA program this year, we will once again be looking for mentors from within the larger UUCV group.  While we are not taking an open solicitation for anyone interested in being a mentor, we are hoping that you will be open to exploring the option of guiding a young UU mind along their spiritual path if you are approached by us.  Talk to the mentors from our last COA cycle and I think you will find they had a wonderful experience with the kids. 

With regards to RE Teaching this year, your RE Committee is hoping that some of you who have been hiding in the background for several years will be willing to come forward and that some of you who have never taken a trip down the RE way will stand up and join us.  RE is an integral function of UUCV and we need everyone in the congregation to help us grow quality young UUs, not just parents and committee members.  I know that many of you come to UUCV for your own spiritual renewal on a weekly basis and missing a service does not sound like fun.  Perhaps, through giving of yourself to our children you will discover another type of spiritual renewal, as many of us who work in RE have discovered. We need you.  I can not say it any other way. Please consider joining us for our RE meeting on Sept. 10th and plugging yourself into our outlet or speak to the DRE or a committee member to learn how you can help.  See you on Sunday! 

Adult Religious Education

 

Roots and Branches

This two-session workshop led by the ministers is offered regularly for people considering membership in UUCV or for recently-joined members.  We will gather on Tuesdays, September 12 and 19 at 7:00 p.m. in the meeting house Library.

 

The first session looks at the “roots” of Unitarians and Universalists in history, and people’s individual religious roots.  The second session focuses on branching out within Unitarian Universalism, with information about how things work at UUCV, regional and denominational activities, and where people’s individual needs and interests might mesh with UUCV’s.  To register, sign up on the sheet in the Social Hall or send a message to “ministersATuucvDOTnet”.

 

Fall Adult Religious Education Classes to Start

Look for the brochure describing our Adult Religious Education classes on and after September 10.  Sign-up sheets will be available on the Sign-Ups Table right inside the Social Hall.  This is a good way to develop personal relationships with other UUCV’ers while learning more about Unitarian Universalism and how to have a religious life in its context.  Teaser:  A four-session class on prayer will be offered on the first four Wednesday evenings in October.

 

Auction 2006 Kick-Off Set for September 10th

 

The date of the Ninth Annual UUCV Auction is Saturday, November 11th, 2005.  The auction committee is busily working behind the scenes to prepare for UUCV’s gala social and fundraising event.  This year’s theme has already been revealed: Jungle Safari!  Start thinking now about a great costume—encouraged, but not required—and maybe you will win UUCV’s first auction costume contest!   Festivities will commence at 5:30 p.m. and run until the conclusion of the live auction at around 10:00.  We are pleased to announce that professional auctioneer Tammy Erb will be returning once again to call the live auction. 

 

Your kids will go ape over the lineup planned for them at this year's Jungle Safari Auction.  Child care begins at 5:30, when the doors open for the Silent Auction.  At 6:00 p.m., Mike the Magician swings in for amazing magic show. At 7:00, the kids will design costumes and act out a skit based on a children's story.  The skit will be filmed and shown just before the live auction begins (and will be available on DVDs for purchase in December).  At 8:00, the kids will get HIPP (Help Increase the Peace Program).  Activities include high-energy team-building events with one or two lively discussions that will help everyone get to know each other better.  Delicious food, featuring both auction-evening cuisine and kid-friendly delicacies, will be available downstairs all evening.  Kids too young for this adventure?  The nursery will be open the entire time of the auction.  Parents, invite your friends and neighbors to come to the auction , and bring the kids for an evening they're guaranteed to love. 

 

Early Bird Deadline for donations is September 10 and we will have a drawing for a GRRRReat prize. Forms have already been mailed out and are also available at the auction table in the social hall.  Please begin thinking of what YOU can donate.  Scour not only your closets but also your skill set to see what you can offer for the benefit of UUCV.  Great auctions items in the past have included hand-knitted sweaters and hats, original art work, glass vases, sets of dinnerware, DVDs, small appliances and electronics…and the stuff that’s too wonderful for a yard sale but that just isn’t being used or appreciated at your house any longer. 

 

Some of the best auction items are the events, gatherings that bring together UUCVers all year long to listen to music, ride bikes, enjoy a meal.  Whether you can accommodate four or forty, invite some fun and friendship into your life this coming year by offering to host an event.  You could also donate use of a vacation cabin or camper van or kayak…the possibilities are really endless!  And remember, you can also donate your contribution to attract someone to your “wishing well.” For example, last year Kim van Alkemade offered to donate $100 for each person with a pickup truck who would help her to move from Shippensburg to Carlisle, raising $400 for UUCV.  Maybe someone at UUCV has the ability to do what you need done!

 

In case you’re new to our congregation or have never attended our auction, here’s your primer:  The centerpiece of all of this food and music and conviviality is a blockbuster fundraising auction to benefit UUCV.  The auction consists of three parts – a silent auction of items on display in the social hall, “sign-ups” for social events sponsored by members and friends of UUCV, and a live auction of donated household goods, artwork, services, vacation retreats, and you-name-it.  An auction catalog will be available in advance so that you can plan your strategy.  On your mark, get set, GO APE!

 

A Word from Your New Board President

From Kit Franklin

 

Many of you already know me fairly well.  I have been on UUCV’s Board of Trustees for four years, and you’ve seen me jump up to the pulpit now and then to welcome newcomers to the service and to ask you to be generous when the offering baskets come around.  I know a few of you well, some of you a little, and too many of you hardly at all.  That is one thing I will be working on, but please forgive me my frequent “senior moments” when it come to names. The members I know least include our growing group of young families with children.  They are the future of UUCV.

 

How can we think about our children without thinking about community?  Building our UUCV Beloved Community is one of our highest priorities, requiring input from all of us.  Whether we make coffee or cookies for Sunday coffee hour, serve on a committee to raise much-needed funds, help keep our building in repair, or fill our hearts with music, whenever we interact with each other with love and care, or join together to reach out into the larger community, we are building our community.  There are dozens of ways to become involved.  It takes all of us working together to build a strong community.

 

As Judy and Duane said in the Annual Report of the Ministers for 2005-6, “Your leadership continues to be stretched thin.”  I have always thought of myself as a good follower, but when asked to accept a leadership role here, I had to ask myself how important Unitarian/Universalism in the Cumberland Valley is to me.  It is very important.

 

I have been a Unitarian since before it merged with the Universalists, and am a charter member of this congregation.  But the real motivating factor in accepting this position was my belief that Central PA, indeed the whole world, needs the message of reason, sanity, justice, fairness, morality, and most of all of love, that UUs bring. So, when asked to serve as Board president, the only possible answer was, “I’ll try.”

 

My heart is deeply rooted in action for social justice, and I truly believe that it is through our projects in the greater community  that we will become known in the Valley and will grow as a congregation.  But as Judy frequently reminds us, we are a church and worship (worth shape) is what we are about.  Indeed, our responses to social issues, and everything else in life, must be shaped and tailored to our basic morals and principles.  We need to be moved by Love, whether we call it that, or God, or The Divine, or simply basic Humanity.  And I find that the Sunday services and the support of our Beloved Community give me the courage to step forward and try to be the best person I can be.  Worship and justice go hand in hand for me.  Love for my fellows and for this planet I call “home”, and the actions I take in their behalf, are both created by, and an expression of, worship.

 

So please join us in worship on Sunday.  Kit

 

September Happenings

 

September 1 Pot Luck Say goodbye to summer and hello to autumn as we gather Friday, September 1 in the dining room for pot luck supper. Bring a dish to share and join us at 6:30 for engaging conversations and music from singer-songwriters of the 60s and 70s.

 

September 16 Writer’s Group The Writer's Group will meet on Saturday, September 16 from 1:00 to 3:00 p.m. at the home of Mary McCarthy, 139 W. Pomfret St. Carlisle.  Call or email Mary if you plan to attend in case of changes to the time/date/place. Tel. 422-6894;mmcarth@earthlink.net.  Come join us for a fun and creative afternoon.  It's a time for sharing the prose or poetry you've written or you can read something written by your favorite author.  As always, new members most welcome!

 

September 24 Serious Stuff Book Group Sharon O'Brien, professor of English and American  Studies at Dickinson and author of the memoir "The Family Silver" will meet with Serious Stuff  members on  Sunday, September 24, in the church library.  The group will discuss her book, which deals with her recurrent depression as well as the history of her Irish-American family. Time is 6:30 to 8 p.m.  Questions?  Contact Leslie Carr at <lgcarr22@yahoo.com>.

 

Caregivers Gather

 

Functioning as a caregiver is a challenging and sometimes a very stressful role.  Perhaps the stress comes from our loss of sense of choices in our personal lives, or perhaps it is our sense of loss of self--as the role may seem all consuming.  Often caregivers become isolated and can benefit from connecting with others who understand and have information and wisdom to lighten the load. 

 

I will be facilitating a caregivers support group which will meet twice a month (on the 2nd & 4th Thursday) at our meeting house.  We will meet from  1-2:30.  Please note that the focus of the group is broader than first announced.  Where it began as a eldercare support group, it now is a caregivers support group.  Some people approached me and pointed out that they needed this kind of structure but their caregiving  was with a spouse, a child, or a disabled person.  Although there are obvious differences among those who are being cared for,  there are many issues of common grounds for the caregivers.   Therefore,  I have broadened the focus of the group to be open to any caregivers who want to join.  

 

Our first session will be on Thursday September 14th at 1 o'clock at UUCV in Boiling Springs.  I will post signs to indicate what room we will be meeting in.  If at all possible, please plan to attend the first session.  It is in this session and the 2nd one on the 28th that we will be working together to shape the direction of the group activities.  

 

If you wish to  enroll, please e-mail me at annegero@mac.com or call at 249-4262 after Sept. 4th.  I'm looking forward to working together.  

 

Social Actions

 

S.H.A.R.E. in the News

Another busy month at Project SHARE saw many volunteers gleaning farmers’ crops, packing pirogues and produce for distribution, sorting and staging donations, and welcoming, registering, or otherwise assisting our clients.  In August the food bank served 750 families during four distribution days.  In addition, a big back to school party with distribution of school supplies was held August 27th.  UUCV contributed 31 pounds of food, at least two bags of school supplies, and many household items contributed by Dot Everhart and Kay Eaton.  Thank you.

 

If you’ve never seen Project SHARE in action, you are welcome to come look us over.  Distributions are held the week of the 3rd Thursday, with distributions held Tuesday from noon until 2:00, Wednesday from 3:00 to 5:00 pm, and Thursday and Saturday mornings beginning at 8:00 am.

 

September’s ingather will be Sunday, September 17, for distribution beginning Tuesday, September 19th.  Mark your calendar!

 

Change for the World

July was a great month for Change for the World as we collected $236 for PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays).  Excellent job everyone, especially in the summer months.  In September, the recipient of our change will be The Carlisle Area Religious Council (CARC)  an interfaith organization of representatives from a number of local congregations.  CARC is best known for  its oversight of Project Share; its sponsorship of  interfaith community Thanksgiving and Baccalaureate services, as well as co-sponsorship of Holocaust Memorial services with Dickinson College and Congregation Beth Tikvah.

 

CARC also oversees the Chaplain Ministry which serves both the Cumberland County Nursing Home and the Cumberland County Prison, and has worked with other local organizations for other events and projects, including the Unity celebrations and helping a Gulf Coast family make Carlisle their home after last year's hurricane season.  CARC also provides a network for congregations and organizations to share information regarding projects and events, as well as the needs of the Carlisle community; allowing member congregations, collectively or individually, to join in local social action efforts.  And as one of few interfaith organizations in the Carlisle area, CARC works to promote tolerance in the Carlisle community.  Be sure and save up those nickels and dimes.

 

All in the UCV Family

 

Ask Anne Gero about her experience as a civilian guest at the National Security Seminar at the Army War College in June.  She says it was “fascinating and life-changing.”  Congratulations to the Tarrant family; Jon and Nancy’s daughter Megan was married on August 12 in a wonderful celebration.  We send healing and supportive thoughts to Don and Marilyn Durr as Don undergoes radiation and chemotherapy and Marilyn recovers from sciatica.  Their good news is that their son Jonathan was married in late July in our sanctuary.  Welcome home to David Bateman and Lisa Dorrill after an adventurous four-week bicycle trip in France with their children Emma and Lucas.  Welcome home also to Geneva and Michael Politzer from a trip to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, MN for a gathering of patients with Michael’s medical syndrome.  Bobbi Bassett gets a virtual hug for all she has done for her father, whose health remains fragile.  Ask Amy Farrell and John Bloom about the terrific time their family had at a week-long UU Family Camp at Ferry Beach in Maine.

 

The Wider UU World

 

Murray Grove HOMECOMING 2006: PILGRIMAGES OF THE HEART A Unitarian Universalist Mid-Atlantic Celebration.  Saturday, September 30, 2006, 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. Rain or Shine – Under the big white tent! Requested Donation: $8; under twelve $4.  At the Murray Grove Retreat and Conference Center, 431 US Highway 9 Lanoka Harbor, NJ 08734 Phone: 609-693-5558; Fax: 609-693-4448; Email: murraygrove@murraygrove.org.

 

To help this fractured and hurting world, we must change one heart at a time.  Oneness – Rev. Forrest Gilmore: minister at the UU Congregation of Princeton, NJ.  Peace – Ravi SKC Gupta: founder of “Gandhi for Today” international peace organization. The Earth – Jim Scott, singer/songwriter/environmental activist.  Revival – Rev. Vanessa R. Southern: minister at the UU Church of Summit, NJ; author. Change of Heart – Kurt Spellmeyer: Zen Master of the Rutgers Zen Community; Director of the Writing Program at Rutgers University. Rites of Passage – Nate Walker: founder, Da Vinci College Foundation; Executive Director, National Tuition Endowment student movement; candidate for UU community ministry.

 

Plus a special Friday night program with musician Jim Scott: MAKING ART OUT OF OUR VISION September 29, 7:00 p.m. – 9:30 p.m. For a copy of the brochure, including registration form, go to our website: murraygrove.org.

 

UUCV Contacts and Resources

 

Ministers Rev. Duane Fickeisen  & Rev. Judy Welles Email  ministersATuucv.net.  Home study telephone: 241-0410

 

Office Assistant  Elena Yarlett Hours: Thursdays from 8:30am to 4:30pm.  Phone: 249-8944  Address: PO Box 207 Boiling Springs, PA 17007 Email: uucvATpa.net


Dir. of Religious Ed. Kevin Snow, 249-8104, dreATuucv.net


UUCV Board of Trustees

Kit Franklin (president),  akfrankATepix.net

Ed Glasgow (vice-president), edwinglasgowATaol.com

Leslie Carr (clerk),  lgcarr22ATyahoo.com

Larry Berger-Knorr (treasurer), bergerknorrATgmail.com  

Priscilla Laws, lawspATdickinson.edu

Tom DeWall, thdewallATpapsy.org

Carol McAnulty, paulandcarol913ATearthlink.net

Jon Tarrant, jwtarrantATcomcast.net

Sue Roberts, b.s.roberts.ivjlATstatefarm.com

 

Committee Chairs and Other Leaders

Building and Grounds Committee: Rick Heckman, heckmanrATcomcast.net & Paula Terry, loonsATpa.net

Music Committee: Ken Laws, lawsATdickinson.edu

Finance & Fundraising Committee:  Bob & Wendy Hankes, galt1627ATcs.com

Membership Committee: Doug Spencer, jbsandmsATepix.net

Committee on Ministry: Liz Hoffman, hoffpsychATmindspring.com & Joan Bechtel, bechteljoATaol.com

Religious Education Committee: Ann Berger-Knorr, annabellejATcomcast.net

Social Action Council:  Priscilla Laws, lawspATdickinson.edu

Caring Circle: Sylvia Hardman

Coffee Coordinator Jeb Boyd, jeb101904ATearthlink.net

Sunday Music Coordinator Nancy Bittinger, nbittingerATcomcast.net

Newsletter Editor: Kim van Alkemade, kivanaATcomcast.net

Flowers Coordinator: Mary Lynn Lynch, marylynn_lynchATyahoo.com

Potluck Coordinator: Tom Vernon, tlvernonATblazenet.net

Small Group Ministry: Ed Glasgow, edwinglasgowATaol.com