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Newsletter for December 2007
Thanks for
Another Successful Auction!
Important
Town Meeting December 9 2007
Rolling into
a Fourth Year of Support for Girls’ Education in Mozambique
The Seven
(hopefully) Church Picnic
A Practice
of Joys and Sorrows
Adult RE
with the Queen of Soul (Collage)
December 2 “Our Purposes, Our Principles, Our
Sources”
The Rev. Duane Fickeisen and Ellen Lyon, Worship
Associate. Music by Carole Knisely and the Recorder Trio
We will celebrate
Association Sunday by considering the Unitarian Universalist Association and
why it matters to our congregation to be a member of it. There is an ongoing
study of our statements of purpose, the seven principles, and the six sources.
The study is examining whether they describe our association well, challenge us
to action, and guide the decisions we make; and asking whether they should be
changed or not. Come learn about them. You’ll have an opportunity to send
comments on the study in writing.
December 9 – “Writing
To Change the World”
The Rev. Judy Welles; Elizabeth Motich,
Worship Associate; music by the UUCV choir and Julie Moffitt.
Judy returns to the pulpit from her sabbatical with some thoughts about how and why we can write to change the world. Probably all of us can call to mind something we have read that changed our world, but what have we written that changed someone else’s? Today’s service will celebrate the completion of last year’s Coming of Age project with the students who were unable to participate in September, AND we will announce the Unsung UU for 2007.
December 12 – “Our
Lives Traveling”
Jill Kachmar and John Kallmann, Worship Associates.
Music by Carole Knisely and The Recorder Trio.
In the midst of the holiday
season hustle and bustle, as many of us prepare to travel or to receive friends
and family from out of town, we'll take time to reflect on the
potential travel has to enrich our lives. When you travel, do you choose
to be a tourist or a traveler? Come join us as we share excerpts
from published works on travel as well as personal stories as of our own
varied experiences--from day trips to long term stays in far
off locales.
December 23 – “Would
You Like to Hold the Baby?”
Pageant Coordinators: Mary
Lynn Lynch, Janet Folsom, Judy Welles; music by the UUCV choir, Pat Spader, and
everyone in attendance!
This lovely, inclusive, multi-generational pageant, written by UU songwriter Joyce Poley, tells the nativity story in a way that all can hear.
December 24 7:30 pm “Christmas Eve Lessons and
Carols”
The Revs. Duane Fickeisen and Judy Welles. Music by
Sally Beaver.
Our annual family
Christmas Eve service includes recitation of the Nativity Story from the
Gospels of Matthew and Luke, modern stories on the theme, and traditional
carols. We end in candlelight. Bring your family and visitors, and stay for
cider and cookies afterward.
December 30 “The World Without Us”
The Revs. Duane Fickeisen and Judy Welles. Music by
Julie Moffitt.
We’ll consider how the
world might respond if suddenly human beings were removed from the scene. What
would the world be like without any of us? We’ll draw on a recent book by the
same title as we near the end of the year. Hopefully we’ll provoke some deep
thinking about the role human beings play and inspire commitments for the New
Year.
Our monthly minister’s column, this month by Rev. Duane Fickeisen
James Baldwin wrote, in
Nothing Personal:
“For nothing is fixed,
forever and forever and forever, it is not fixed; the earth is always shifting,
the light is always changing, the sea does not cease to grind down rock.
Generations do not cease to be born, and we are responsible to them because we
are the only witnesses they have. The sea rises, the light fails, lovers cling
to each other, and children cling to us. The moment we cease to hold each
other, the moment we break faith with one another, the sea engulfs us and the
light goes out.”
We are the only
witnesses they have. Our faith, our love for one another, is the beacon of hope
in our never-fixed, always-shifting world. It is the beacon that lights the
way, even when the rest of the light grows dim.
The Nativity story is
about hope and wonder and awe, about a leading star and faith in its guidance.
It’s a story of the miracle of birth, of new life, of the immanent presence of
the holy within humanity — the spark of the divine that is within every being.
And that’s the stuff we ought to cling to and hold on to, because our sense of
wonder and awe — of mystery — is the foundation of hope.
In the face of times
that are as challenging these, God knows we need hope and faith. Not because
hope and faith will rescue us, but because they help us to find the courage and
the staying power to do what needs to be done. To reach out to one another, to
build and sustain robust networks of support, to create communities devoted to
realizing the vision of a better future.
We are, after all,
agents of creation, with free will and the power to effect transformation in,
among, and beyond ourselves if we choose to make it happen.
It does not take great
wisdom to understand God’s will for us or to see what’s wrong around us. Our
faith teaches us to follow the prophet Micah’s exhortation to “do justice, love
kindness, and walk humbly.” Unitarian theologian Charles Hartshorne argued that
God wants us to create more enjoyment — to bring more love to the world. That’s
our purpose and reason for being. Each of us can see problems around us —
suffering, injustice, and evil. And surely we can see opportunities to use our
resources and talents to make a difference. We pretty much know what needs to
be done — or can readily discover it when we simply pay attention.
These darkest and
coldest nights invite us to slow down, to pause and reflect, to pay attention
in a different way to the wonders around us, to be witnesses to mystery and to
experience awe. To be sure there are competing forces that call us to frenzies
of shopping, decorating, cooking, and other preparations for the holidays. But
you can be countercultural and resist the frenzy, at least for an hour, perhaps
for an hour each day during Advent to fully experience this time of waiting
with expectancy.
As the year’s end
approaches, take some time to consider the importance of keeping faith, of
holding each other, of keeping the flame alive. Consider the value of community
and our need to create and sustain relationships with one another. We are
called to be agents of love, to create more love, to transform our own lives so
that we might change the world — and to work toward changing the world so that
we might be transformed by the work. To do justice. To love kindness. To walk
humbly.
So take some time
during Kwanza — the week after Christmas — to reflect on your personal mission.
What really matters to you? Why are you here? What is your calling? How can you
better serve the future? Are the values you espouse evident in your actions?
What would help you stay healthy and engaged so that you might be an effective
witness? When the New Year is about to dawn, make meaningful resolutions, and
commit to action that has the potential to make a difference in the coming
months. With faith we will surely keep the light of hope burning bright — a
beacon to all.
See you on Sunday!
Duane
Town Meeting
Finance and Fundraising Report
Our Congregation’s
current financial picture is worrisome.
All the committees have been successfully keeping within their budgets
and our expenses are in control. Our
income, however, is under 50% of what it was at this time last year when we had
a special call to bolster our income. The Board of Trustees has scheduled a
Town Meeting following the December 9 service to discuss the current financial
conditions.
The contributions in
the Sunday basket that are not specific pledge payments are only one third of
what was projected, and grocery card purchases are just 60 % of the amount
budgeted. The greater concern is that
our pledge contributions are behind schedule by over 60%, resulting in a
current shortfall of nearly $20,000. Our Annual Auction, even though it was one
of the best, and certainly one of the most enjoyable, brought in about $4,500
less than expected. We have had to use
last year’s surplus ($12,000) to finance ourselves so far this year. Your Board of Trustees had hoped that
surplus would be the beginning of establishing a responsible reserve fund.
In July, the beginning
of our fiscal year, we were excited about the fact that this year, with the money
in the building fund, we would be able to achieve a long desired goal to build a vertical lift and make our building
accessible. We succeeded in obtaining a
grant that would let us have a Music Director.
We looked forward to keeping up with our Five Year Plan and gathering
costs to discuss various opportunities to improve the sanctuary-- including air
conditioning – another accessibility issue. These initiatives have to be
reconsidered pending our success of bringing our income current.
These are troubling
financial times. Some of us may be more
dramatically affected by the downturn in this economy than others, but one
thing is certain: We are all bailing
water from the same boat. In these
tougher more uncertain times we perhaps need our congregation more than
ever. So again, let’s each consider
what we may do to help. Perhaps we can
be more diligent about staying current with our pledges. Perhaps some of us can
pay earlier than we planned or some of us could contribute more. If you find that you need to adjust your
pledge downward or are able to adjust it upward, please let your Treasurer,
Larry Berger-Knorr, know that so we can plan responsibly. With your help this boat will be on an even
keel again, and then, no more bailing.
Thanks for listening. Thanks for
helping.
Our Meetinghouse was transformed into An International Celebration on November 10th, with a Mexican cantina, a Marketplace, fabulous food, and fun door prizes. Auction 2007 was another huge success, with the funds going to UUCV’s basic operating costs. The official tally for the event was $13,500, with post-auction sales continuing to add to this total.
It takes many creative, able volunteers to put on an event of this magnitude – too many in fact to mention all by name. The Auction Planning Committee this year consisted of Keith Bittinger, Kim Clark, Susan Helm, John Kallmann, Dave and Missy Molino, Geneva Politzer, Kim van Alkemade, Carol McAnulty, and Bev Motich. Many additional volunteers, led by Ed Glasgow and Rick Heckman, showed up to set up the auction on Friday night, and restore our social hall to its proper order after the auction ended. Amy Farrell is now providing post-auction support by continuing to advertise the Sign Ups that are still available.
In addition, we couldn’t hold an Auction without the many donations contributed by our members, so we thank all of you for your contributions, and also, for coming out to support the Auction and share in this wonderful event.
If you didn’t help this year, well, you missed out on half the fun! We hope you’ll join us next year. Planning begins in August; so keep your eyes peeled for announcements of our organizing meetings. Meanwhile, if you have any feedback on the auction or something you’d like to see in future events, please feel free to email your ideas to this year’s chair Bev Motich, bmotich@yahoo.com.
From Kit Franklin, President, UUCV Board of Trustees
The Finance and Fundraising
Committee has included an article in this Newsletter, and if you haven’t read
it yet, I hope you will. We face a significant shortfall in income from what we
had anticipated when the congregation passed the budget for this fiscal year.
Every major source of income is well under our expectations for this time in
the year, and we must either find ways to increase our income or decrease our
expenses in the coming weeks. Perhaps
our situation is a reflection of the national/world financial problems, but in
any case, we must make some decisions in order to deal with it.
That will be the topic of discussion at a Town Meeting your Board of
Trustees has called for December 9, after the Sunday morning Worship
Service. We need as many of you as
possible to attend. Please bring your
questions, suggestions and ideas along with a cup of coffee/tea, and join us in
the Sanctuary. We will try to have
child-care available during the meeting.
Our Beloved Community needs each and every one of you!
By Kevin C. Snow
For anyone who
faithfully reads my column each month, whoever you may be, I want to apologize
for not having a column in last month’s newsletter. Due to some bizarre
quirk of the electronic universe my column never reached its destination, even
after several tries! Ever feel like the world is aligning against you? Well,
that’s the way I felt last month. It was a pretty darn good column too.
But, since the world was against me, the computer that I had it saved on to
resend it went and died in the past month and with it my column. I told
you the world was working against me. It’s not paranoia if it’s real,
right?
Well, those little
problems happen in life and we must roll on. So, here I sit for another
time in the hopes that this message will reach you all safely and
soundly. If I were a Buddhist I could spin this into a great parable
about the impermanence of life. While that is a good thing to be reminded
of from time to time, it didn’t help my life much in the end. However, the Dell
Company is very happy about the impermanence of life, at least as far as my
last computer was concerned, since they provided me with my nice, new home
system. Let’s hope this one proves slightly more permanent than the last
computer. I consider my parable on life learned and I will do more back
ups, I promise!
So, onto some religious
education related things. RE has been going along well but as usual we
have hit a bump or two in the road. After some juggling of schedules some
issues have been worked out, but we could use some teaching help in the near
future in our middle school class. The class is working through the
curriculum Our Neighboring Faiths in order to learn about comparative
religion. The lessons include either a visit to a local church or meeting
house or a guest visitor from the religions we discuss. So far the class
has explored Judaism and visited Congregation Beth Tikvah and studied
Catholicism and will be visiting St. Patrick’s Church. Next up is an
exploration of Islam. Do you have an interest in comparative
religion? Would you be willing to help teach some lessons or tackle an
entire chunk or be a guest speaker for a particular faith group? If so,
we need you. We hope you have a better grasp on your schedule
for next year now, so please contact me or Ann Berger-Knorr with your
interest. If I come to some of you and personally invite you to share or
teach, please consider it carefully. As usual, the RE program at UUCV can
not maintain its quality without your volunteer support.
On another happy note,
the OWL (Our Whole Lives) human sexuality class for 7-9th
graders has had a great kick off and looks like it will be a wonderful group
this year. I am personally very excited to assist in the program and I
look forward to educating our young folks with my colleagues. Thank you
to all the parents whom enrolled their children in this important
program. Please consider enrolling your kids in the future.
And on a final note, I
must mention that it is Guest at Your Table time. Please stop into the
Social Hall and pick up a GAYT box, take it home, fill it with money, and
return to me at Christmas time. As usual, all money goes directly to the Unitarian Universalist Service
Committee to support important social action causes such as
equality for workers and clean water rights around the world. There is a
display with the boxes that can give you tons of more information on the UUSC
and its causes, so please grab some information and give generously. I
hope everyone has a wonderful holiday month! See you on Sunday!
(Editor’s note:
the lack of DRE column last month was due to Editor error. I inadvertently blocked Kevin’s e-mail
address. Whoops! --LR)
“...there is
no tool for development more effective than the education of girls.”
Kofi A. Annan, Former Secretary General of the United Nations, 2004
For the past 3 years
UUCV has been partnering with the United Church of Canada and the Christian
Council of Mozambique (CCM) to provide “bursaries” to support schooling for
girls between the ages of 12 and 18 years who have completed the top grade in
their villages. These students come from rural villages in northern Mozambique.
Our bursary program supported 24 girls in 2005 and has expanded each year to
support students who want to continue into higher grades and new girls who
enter the program. So we supported 48 girls in 2006 and over 60 girls in 2007.
This year Karen Butt
the on-site administrator for our UUCV Bursary Project has identified 98 girls
who have either just finished the top grade in their villages or who want to
continue in school. They have all been loyal members of the AIDS prevention
clubs she has organized! Last year we asked you to help provide $300 each for
56 girls. But thanks to some creative
organization on Karen’s part and to an offer from the students at Londonderry
School in Harrisburg to help us by raising $3000, we can send 98 girls to school
by raising only $17,000. How is this possible?
All of the girls we
have supported so far have enrolled in school at regional centers and lived in
dormitories (called lars). Thus, each girl needed funds for room and board as
well as for school fees, supplies and uniforms. But now a couple of the
villages in the region where the girls live have added higher grades to their
schools. So some of the new and returning students can live at home and attend
school in nearby villages where 6th ,7th or 8th
grade classes are now available.
Karen has designed a
new style of bursary for 47 of the girls who can either walk or bike to school
(on bicycles that we purchase for them). The average cost of this new bursary
option will be only $100 per student. We’ll still need to raise $300 each for
the girls attending the Teachers College and high school.
To learn more about the
project the Social Action Council invites you and your family to a Mozambican
luncheon at UUCV shortly after the service on Sunday, December 2nd.
The lunch will be followed by a premiere showing of a 12-minute Documentary
about our 2007 bursary girls produced especially for us by our on-site Project
Coordinators, Karen and Bill Butt. Priscilla Laws and Virginia Jackson will
lead a discussion after the showing, share their experiences visiting the girls
in mid-September, and explain this year’s fundraising goals in more detail. If
you plan to join us please let Priscilla Laws know by November 30th
how many of family members are coming (call 243-9525 or send an email to lawsp@dickinson.edu).
We hope you will be
able to support one or more girls at between $100 and $300 each, but SAC
members will appreciate any amount you can afford to give. We will be collecting funds from Sunday Dec 2
through Sunday Jan 6th. The procedures are simple: Just write a
check and put “Moz Bursary” in the subject line or put cash in an envelope,
seal it and write your name and the words Moz Bursary” on it. These
contributions can be put in the collection box, given to Terri or me, or mailed
to “Moz Bursary, c/o UUCV, 2 Forge Road, Boiling Springs PA 17007.
Questions? Contact
campaign coordinators Priscilla Laws (243-9525 or lawsp@dickinson.edu)
or Terri Smiley (486-4503 or tallterri09@yahoo.com)
by Alan Franklin
The GLBT (Gay, Lesbian,
Bisexual, and Transgender) Justice Initiative invited our counterparts in 6
other UU churches in our general area to join us Sunday, November 18, 2007 in a
day-long get together to learn about and discuss various current events
affecting GLBT justice in Pennsylvania and explore ways we might further this
justice. Three of the churches accepted
our invitation and came to spend the day with us. That consisted of attending service here, having lunch in the
dining room, a delightful interlude of singing by the Adams TreeO, and finally
a business meeting. Friends from
Harrisburg, State College, and York attended.
The invitees from Gettysburg, Lancaster and Reading couldn’t make
it. Also on hand was Stephen Glassman,
Chairperson of the PA Human Relations Commission.
We learned from Steve
that the PA Hate Crimes legislation, passed in 2002, has been declared
unconstitutional by the Commonwealth court of PA, and help was urgently needed
to re-enact these provisions. We also
learned that there is real hope of getting legislation (HB1400) through the PA
House amending the PA Human Relations Act to include sexual orientation and
gender identity in the protected categories, thus providing protection for all
in the GLBT community. Getting the
companion bill (S761) through the PA Senate is considerably less sure. Finally, Steve brought us up to date on the
fate of ENDA, the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, in the Federal House. The bill was passed, but with 2 crippling
changes decided upon by the House leadership in a search for votes that Steve
said was not needed. One was stripping
gender identity and expression from the bill’s coverage, thus eliminating
transgender folks from the protection. The other was the inclusion of a blanket religious exemption from
the provisions of the bill, so broad that it could be used by almost anyone to
avoid the strictures of the bill, thus emasculating it.
Look for the GLBT
Justice Initiative to be calling on your help in the near future in persuading
our Representatives to support justice for all people!
The whole affair went
very well indeed, and grateful thanks are due the marvelous crew who turned out
to make it happen. With the risk of
leaving somebody out, many thanks, and kudos, to Dan & Joan Bechtel, Kathy
Bell, Jeb Boyd, Kit Franklin, John & Gisela Kallmann, Drew & Mary Lynn
Lynch, Julie & Emily Miles, Jackie Page, Doug & Janet Spencer, and Jon
Tarrant, and, in the Adams Family TreeO, David & Virginia Jackson and Ken
Laws.
The Serious Stuff
Bookgroup is loads of fun! Anyone
interested in reading the books throughout 2008 (see list) and joining us for
discussion centered mostly around those books, is welcomed to do so.
You need not have
attended any Bookgroup meetings in the past; you need not agree to attend any
in the future. Come once to try it
out--we are just regular UUCV-folk. We
are not experts, we are not (surprise!) overly SERIOUS, we require nothing
except respect for the other members of the group. You don't even have to read the book to attend the meeting! Some
of you have been tempted but fear...what?
That those who attend are scintillating intellectuals? Are dull intellectuals? I assure you on both fronts: no more so
than YOU. You'll laugh more than you'll
frown. It's an easy-going group.
Seriously. Questions? Contact Leslie Carr at lgcarr22@yahoo.com
The Serious
Stuff Bookgroup 2008 Booklist
JANUARY 27, 2008
Letter to a Christian Nation
By Sam Harris
“Thousands of people
have written to tell me that I am wrong not to believe in God. The most hostile
of these communications have come from Christians. This is ironic, as
Christians generally imagine that no faith imparts the virtues of love and forgiveness
more effectively than their own. The truth is that many who claim to be
transformed by Christ’s love are deeply, even murderously, intolerant of
criticism. While we may want to ascribe this to human nature, it is clear that
such hatred draws considerable support from the Bible. How do I know this? The
most disturbed of my correspondents always cite chapter and verse.”
So begins Letter to a Christian Nation…
FEBRUARY 24, 2008
Complications
By Atul Gawande
Gently dismantling the
myth of medical infallibility, Dr. Atul Gawande's Complications: A Surgeon's
Notes on an Imperfect Science is essential reading for anyone involved in
medicine--on either end of the stethoscope.
Gawande's tales are humane and passionate reminders that doctors are
people, too. His prose is thoughtful and engaging, shifting from sometimes
painful stories of suffering patients (including his own child) to intriguing
suggestions for improving medicine. Gawande's background in philosophy and
ethics is evident throughout these pieces, which range from edgy accounts of
medical traumas to sobering analyses of doctors' anxieties and burnout. With
humor, sensitivity and critical intelligence, he explores the pros and cons of
new technologies, including a controversial model for routine surgeries that
delivers superior success rates while dramatically cutting costs.
MARCH 30, 2008
(note: meeting is on 5th Sunday of the month due to Easter)
Blaming the Victims
Edited by Edward Said and Christopher Hitchens
The aim of these essays and book reviews is to highlight what Said, a professor
at Columbia, calls in his introduction the "grotesque, almost parodistic
garishness" of pro-Israeli, anti-Palestinian scholarship in the West,
particularly in the U.S., where, he says, "it is as if even the narrative
of Palestinian history is not tolerable." Hitchens, a columnist for the Nation, attempts to debunk the
longstanding Israeli argument that Palestinians left their homes in 1948
because Arab governments made broadcasts urging them to do so, not because
Israelis forced them out. This is a
challenging book.
APRIL 27, 2008
The Ghost Map
By Steven Johnson
On August 28, 1854,
working-class Londoner Sarah Lewis tossed a bucket of soiled water into the cesspool
of her squalid apartment building and triggered the deadliest outbreak of
cholera in the city's history. In this tightly written page-turner,
Johnson crafts a story of suffering,
perseverance and redemption that echoes to the present day. Describing a city
and culture experiencing explosive growth, with its attendant promise and
difficulty, Johnson builds the story around physician John Snow. In the face of
a horrifying epidemic, Snow (pioneering developer of surgical anesthesia)
posited the then radical theory that cholera was spread through contaminated
water rather than through miasma, or smells in the air. Against considerable
resistance from the medical and bureaucratic establishment, Snow persisted and,
with hard work and groundbreaking research, helped to bring about a fundamental
change in our understanding of disease and its spread.
MAY 25, 2008
Living with the Devil
By Stephen Batchelor
The author of Buddhism
Without Beliefs and a former monk in the Tibetan and Zen traditions,
Batchelor works to reconcile the fears, desires, and compulsions of the ego
(the devil or Mara) with the certainty of death. He demonstrates how the anguish associated
with the transient nature of life has preoccupied humans for centuries.
Surveying responses to this intractable problem, Batchelor concludes that
mankind has always relied on the temptations of the devil to still anxiety and
create an aura of permanence. Compulsive activities, lustful behavior and
behaving violently and destructively to others are all evils that stem from Mara.
Overcoming these feelings and pursuing the way of love and compassion, for
Batchelor, rests on one's ability to make peace with the devil and nourish
one's "Buddha nature."
JUNE 22, 2008
The Diving Bell and the Butterfly
By Jean-Dominique Bauby
We've all got our
idiosyncrasies when it comes to writing--a special chair we have to sit in, a
certain kind of yellow paper we absolutely must use. To create this
tremendously affecting memoir, Jean-Dominique Bauby used the only tool
available to him--his left eye--with which he blinked out its short chapters,
letter by letter. Two years ago, Bauby, then the 43-year-old editor-in-chief of
Elle France, suffered a rare stroke to the brain stem; only his left eye
and brain escaped damage. Rather than accept his "locked in"
situation as a kind of death, Bauby ignited a fire of the imagination under
himself and lived his last days spiritually unfettered. (adapted from
Amazon.com)
JULY 27, 2008
Jesus and the Lost Goddess: the Secret Teachings of
the Original Christians
By Timothy Freke and Peter Gandy
Why Were the Teachings
of the Original Christians Brutally Suppressed by the Roman Church?
• Because they portray Jesus and Mary Magdalene as mythic figures based on the
Pagan Godman and Goddess
• Because they show that the gospel story is a spiritual allegory encapsulating
a profound philosophy that leads to mythical enlightenment
• Because they have the power to turn the world inside out and transform life
into an exploration of consciousness
Drawing on modern scholarship, the authors of the international bestseller The
Jesus Mysteries decode the secret teachings of the original Christians and
theorize about who they really were and what they actually taught. This daring and controversial book recovers
the ancient wisdom of the original Christians and demonstrates its relevance to
us today.
AUGUST 24, 2008
Twenty Cases Suggestive of Reincarnation
By Ian Stevenson
See amazon.com’s
“Search Inside” feature on this book’s page.
Read “Back Cover” and “Introduction” in order to get the gist of this
important book’s content. (A blurb will
appear by newsletter time in July.)
SEPTEMBER 28, 2008
Autobiography of a Face
by Lucy Grealy
At age nine, Lucy Grealy was diagnosed with a potentially terminal cancer. When
she returned to school with a third of her jaw removed, she faced the cruel
taunts of classmates. In this strikingly candid memoir, Grealy tells her story
of great suffering and remarkable strength without sentimentality and with
considerable wit. Vividly portraying the pain of peer rejection and the guilty
pleasure of wanting to be special, Grealy captures with unique insight what it
is like as a child and young adult to be torn between two warring impulses: to
feel that more than anything else we want to be loved for who we are, while
wishing desperately and secretly to be perfect. (Amazon)
OCTOBER 26, 2008
Plain Truth
By Jodi Picoult
This book begins as a quietly electrifying
story of an unmarried Amish teenager who gives birth to a baby she is accused
of then smothering. Picoult's latest novel settles into a trial epic centered
intriguingly on an Amish dairy farm near Lancaster, Pa. Katie Fisher, 18, denies not only having
committed the murder but even having borne the baby, whose body is found in the
Fishers' calving pen, and she sticks to her story, even when she is quizzed by
Ellie Hathaway, the high-powered Philadelphia attorney who undertakes Katie's
defense. The story's quietude is
appropriate, given its magnificently painted backdrop and distinctive
characters. (adapted from
Publisher’s Weekly)
NOVEMBER 23, 2008
This is our meeting to
choose books for 2009.
DECEMBER 2008
There is no bookgroup
meeting this month.
In response to your
requests, the Membership Committee is starting up a new “Circle Supper”
program. These will be bimonthly
potluck dinners in people’s homes for members and friends of UUCV, hopefully
with a mix of long-time and newer people who will enjoy getting to know each
other over a meal. The dates we are
considering are: Nov. 17, Jan. 12, March 21, and May 10.
Look for a sign-up
sheet in the Social Hall if you would like to participate in this
community-building and fun activity.
There will be a place to indicate if you can host a supper in your home
(6-8 guests is ideal); of course this will only work if we have enough
hosts! Guests will be assigned to the
hosts before the assigned date, and the host will call the guests to give
directions and arrange for their food assignment (hosts will probably provide
the main course). These suppers can be
as simple or as elaborate as you would like them to be. It will be a wonderful
occasion for sharing our fellowship.
If you have questions,
please, contact Gisela Roethke at roethke@dickinson.edu
or call in the evening at 245-2360.
We try to open the Meetinghouse every Sunday morning,
regardless of weather. Of course there may be mornings when that’s just not feasible.
We hope they are rare.
If a storm does impact the roads on Sunday, we’ll try
to make a decision about canceling services by 9:00 am and post a notice on the
calendar at the UUCV website (http://www.uucv.net/calendar.html) as well as on the church voice mail (249-8944). If
you’re in doubt, check there. Board members and committee chairs are encouraged
to post meeting and event cancellations on the calendar as well.
Road conditions can vary quite a bit in the region we
serve. If it seems hazardous for you to travel, stay home. If you have a
responsibility that morning, try to let us know that you won’t be there by
calling the Meetinghouse and the appropriate staff person or volunteer who was
expecting your participation.
Soon after we started the ritual of dropping stones
into water to mark joys, sorrows, and intentions, the worship leaders noticed
that a new stone appeared each week that looked a little different from the
others. We were moved when we heard the story about the odd stones from Chuck
Folsom.
Chuck told us that he looks for a stone during the
week, picks it up, and holds it, and if he feels a connection with it, then he
carries it with him until Sunday. Then, he says, “Throughout the week, when I
need to, I shed bad feelings by reaching into my pocket and holding on to the
stone. It also can bring on a smile when I touch it and remember my joy. Each
Sunday I give up the stone and with it the joys and sorrows that I had that
week.”
It’s a creative extension of joys and sorrows, and we
invite you to consider what rituals you might adopt to help stay connected with
the community of UUCV throughout the week.
The
ministers’ annual holiday open house will be on Sunday afternoon, December
16th. All members and friends of UUCV are invited to drop in for a holiday
buffet and fellowship. We’ll be ‘at home’ from 1:00 to 5:00 pm ready to welcome
you at 145 East Pomfret Street in Carlisle. We have two large dogs.
With deep gratitude
this is to report a record contribution to Project SHARE in November. Generous UUVC-ers donated 131 pounds of food
plus 4 turkeys (weight unknown), a total of 122 items. While we did not reach our goal of 10
Thanksgiving Dinner bags, enough extra items were donated that it was a “trade
off.” Thirty-three Giant receipts were
given in October totaling $33.00 for the food bank. Their goal of 5,000 was reached.
This money will be used to purchase Christmas hams for December
distribution.
In October the food
bank served 894 households, a total of 2130 individuals. Of this total, 48% of the families earn less
than $12,000. The retail value per box
was $150.71. Cost to the bank was
$20.35, so you see your contributions mean a lot.
December ingathering
will be Sunday the 16th.
Greatest needs are spaghetti sauce, beef stew, canned chicken and of
course our signature item, pork and beans.
All donations greatly appreciated.
December's Change for
the World recipient will be dedicated to the UUA Growth Project, a national
marketing campaign designed to:
*Inspire members to
take greater pride in their identity as Unitarian Universalists
*Encourage Unitarian Universalists
to invite friends and family to visit congregations
*Raise name recognition
of Unitarian Universalism
*Give Unitarian
Universalism a voice in the national discourse about faith
Full page ads and
"advertorials" have appeared and will appear in the October through
December issues of Time Magazine.
Matching funds will double your contribution to this project.
October's change
amounted to $200 that will be sent to the Unitarian Church of Blanchard Valley
in Findlay, Ohio
to help with repairing damages from flooding this summer. All those dimes
and nickels really do add up!
The Sunday morning
adult education program finishes up the fall semester with a three-session
class on Soul Collage cards. Learn how to make your own and use them for
self-discovery and spiritual development from the queen of Soul (Collage) Dot
Everhart. Classes run from 9 a.m. to 10:15 a.m. on Dec. 2, 9 and 16 in the
downstairs dining room. Bring used magazines to the first class if you
an. Check out the January newsletter for our spring semester offerings.
As December rolls
around, its time for the holidays, decorating, cookies, and of course the
traditional UUCV Mitten Tree! Starting on the 9th of December, you can
begin bringing in your new mittens, hats, and gloves to adorn our sanctuary's
tree. These items will be donated to charity at the end of the
month. More information to follow, stay tunes to PreViews and the Order
of Service.
December 7
The Pot Luck Supper will be held on Friday, Dec. 7 at 6:30 p.m. Music
for the evening will be orchestral arrangements and seasonal. Bring a dish to
share, dine by candlelight and join in the festivities.
December 9 Newcomer’s Orientation
December 9 Town Hall Meeting to discuss UUCV financial condition, immediately following the service.
December 15 The Writer's Group will meet on Saturday,
December 15 from 1:00 to 3:00 P.M. at the home of Mary McCarthy, 129 W. Pomfret
St., Carlisle. Call or email Mary if you plan to attend in
case of changes to the schedule - 258-5668 - mmcarth@comcast.net. Come
join us for a fun and creative afternoon. You can share your writings or
read something written by a favorite author. As always, new members
most welcome!
Chuck Folsom who works at the Mechanicsburg Navy base has been promoted to Division Director of Policy and Administration for Navy Food Service. His family is extremely proud of him!
We would love to
share your news with the UUCV family, but we won’t know what it is unless you
tell us! Please send news for this
column to Judy Welles, jcwellesATearthlinkDOTnet.
Want to know what’s happening in our UU district? Just click on http://www.jpduua.org/ and check our the Packet 2007 for monthly information, or browse the site for happenings at our neighboring congregations.
This
information is meant to facilitate participation and communication among
friends and members of UUCV; please do not share information without the
person’s consent. Our ministers, staff and trustees have made their emails
available to facilitate communication.
Ministers Rev.
Duane Fickeisen & Rev. Judy Welles
Email:
ministers@uucv.net or duane@uucv.net or judy@uucv.net. Home study telephone: 241-0410
Office
Assistant Elena Yarlett
Hours:
Thursdays from 8:30am to 4:00pm. Phone:
249-8944 Address: PO Box 207 Boiling Springs, PA 17007 Email:
uucv@pa.net
Dir.
of Religious Ed. Kevin Snow
Phone: 249-8104 Email: dre@uucv.net
UUCV
Board of Trustees
Kit Franklin (president), akfrank@kuhncom.net
Ed Glasgow (vice-president), edwinglasgow@aol.com
Larry Berger-Knorr (treasurer), bergerknorr@gmail.com
Priscilla Laws, lawsp@dickinson.edu
Carol McAnulty, (clerk) paulandcarol913@embarqmail.com
Jon Tarrant, jwtarrant@comcast.net
John Kallmann johnkallmann@earthlink.net
Bev Motich bmotich@yahoo.com
Committee
Chairs and Other Leaders
Building and Grounds: Letty Kress, kresswolf@paonline.com
Music Committee: Ken Laws, laws@dickinson.edu
Finance & Fundraising
Committee: vacant
Membership Committee: Rachel Teates, willowtrek23@yahoo.com
Committee on Ministry: Liz Hoffman, hoffpsych@mindspring.com & Joan
Bechtel, bechteljo@aol.com
Religious Education Committee: Ann Berger-Knorr, annabellej@comcast.net
Social Action Council: Priscilla Laws, lawsp@dickinson.edu
Caring Circle: Bee Miller beemiller@sprylearning.com
Coffee Coordinator Joyce Lukima joycelukima@hotmail.com
& Gail Witwer
Sunday Music Coordinator Nancy Bittinger, nbittinger@comcast.net
Newsletter Editor: Laura Rumley lmrumley@yahoo.com
Flowers Coordinator: Mary Lynn Lynch, marylynn_lynch@yahoo.com
Potluck Coordinator: Bill Vernon, wwvernon@earthlink.net
Small Group Ministry: Ann
Gero, annegero@mac.com &
Margery Andrews,
md.andrews@comcast.net; Duane Fickeisen,
duane@uucv.net